Topic > Ban Arranged Marriages - 1315

Arranged marriages have been around for a while and still are. In some countries, arranged marriages are actually a tradition, but it is wrong to arrange a marriage out of necessity rather than love. Did you know that arranged marriages can be annulled? You can legally annul your arranged marriage with a legal session in court. With arranged marriages you hurt your children more than help them. By marrying them at a young age, they don't get much education. Arranged marriages are cruel because people deserve the choice of who to marry and the chance to love. Traditional arranged marriages were arranged by parents. They arranged the child's future spouse with little or no input from the child regarded as having final authority ("Arranged Marriage"). If the child rejects the parents' choice, the parents may choose another possible spouse or the child may be punished or disowned (or in rare cases, killed accidentally in the heat of passion or intentionally with the legal authority to do so). In traditional arranged marriages, the child has no real role in the marriage. They have no say in who they marry. Modern arranged marriages are arranged by the child's parents. They choose several possible companions for their child, sometimes with the help of the child (who may indicate which photos or biographies he or she likes). The parents then arrange a meeting with the spouse's family and will often have a brief unsupervised meeting (e.g., an hour-long walk together in the neighborhood) (Wedding Planning). The child will then choose who he wants... middle of paper... biblical facts about marriage"). God designed marriage to be indissoluble. Instead of looking for reasons to break it, we should be trying to find reasons to stay married! I Arranged marriages should become illegal because people don't have the choice of who to marry. It is unfair to marry without love in your life except that marriages here on earth are arranged by ego-oriented parents instead of God ("tradition or arranged marriages "). When God created suitable partners for us, he knew what we were like, God designed marriage with love and not with Arranged marriages should be banned because people want the chance to fall in love with someone and marry them. With an arranged marriage you are hurting your child instead of helping them.