Nazari was at home waiting for our meeting. He called to confirm the appointment the day before. Nazari began the session by talking about how inspired he was by our previous conversation when the author directed the session towards a phenomenon of patience, the importance of improving patience skills and consequently the cognitive restructuring of the individual. priority. The customer was happy to report his improvement. He reportedly focused his efforts first on obtaining a driver's license. He currently takes the opportunity to travel to Melbourne where he drives a car under the supervision of his friend. The next stage will be buying a car. He has already spoken to his friend who is willing to lend him money for this purpose. Once he has the car, it will be much easier to find a job, as the client explained. Additionally, making the priority list made the client less nervous and more patient than in our previous session. While talking about his family he briefly mentioned that the security situation in Pakistan is worsening and therefore he is very worried about them. His mind was absorbed in the memory of his father and brother, who were killed in 1999. When the writer asked him if he wanted to talk more about it, he briefly noted: “We all have some sort of traumatic experience, a loss or grief. Our life is made up of this and we are used to it." He did not want to reveal anything else about it. Continuing the conversation, the client talked about his exploratory spirit. He has already traveled extensively across Australia, visiting Sydney, Canberra and Wagga Wagga. He liked Canberra more because he was left with his country where the landscape is full of hills and...... middle of paper ......brought, he cannot get a bank loan to buy a car because he doesn't have a job. He thus found himself in an "unsolvable" and unsustainable situation which worries him greatly. He has said several times that he would rather have a job than receive compensation from Centrelink. He insisted on his characteristics as a “proud person” who would prefer any type of job rather than living on social benefits. Talking about any other jobs, he told the writer that he has not received any other offers from Diversitat employment services yet. The situation described by the client seems paradoxical to him. The writer attempted to explain the “Circulus vitiousus position” the client seemed to be in. Applied cognitive approach. Patience as a virtue has been discussed. Nazari made it clear that he would like to continue counseling.