At the beginning of the film, Diary of a Mad Black Woman, Helen's physical appearance is presented as a rich person would dress. He dresses very elegantly as if he were a lawyer. She wears dresses, dresses, skirts and tops tailored to fit her slim body. She's not wearing tennis shoes or sandals, she's wearing heels. When Charles kicks her out of the house and as the film continues, Helen begins to dress more like a middle class person. He no longer wears his Sunday best; more colorful, comfortable and happy. She wears summer clothes and now her shoes have transformed from heels to sandals. Seeing Helen from the beginning, and the way she dresses, and the house she lived in, you would think that she came from a wealthy family and was brought up to dress very elegantly like, when in reality it's the exact opposite. Before Charles, Helen grew up in what you call a “ghetto” neighborhood. His mother is a Christian woman but his grandmother would not be afraid to run over a human being. They have a two-story house and hang out with a lot of people regardless of who they are or where they come from. It can be assumed that Helen has a high school education as she knows how to read, write and write. Helen has no work experience because she depends on Charles. Because Charles pampered her with what she wanted, abused her, and treated her with disrespect, she changed her ways. Helen learns to work for what she wants, to stand up for herself, to keep her guard up even when it's not necessary and not to tolerate any disrespect. At the beginning of the film, you can tell just by the way Helen's facial expressions are presented that she has a soft tone in her voice and a soft heart; very compassionate.. His vocabulary not ... middle of paper ......like the strength to tell Charles that they will always be friends. She is a better person now and thinks about herself and how she should be happy. After making Orlando wait a while, she finally decided she wanted to marry him. He found his happy place and was with it. She chose to join him on the road to a happy ending. “We may not love easily, but when we love, we love intensely.” In this film, Tyler Perry states that not all men are the same. Just because a man is rude, selfish, ignorant, and unfaithful, doesn't mean all men are like that. Women should not make men like Orlando pay for what men like Charles did to Helen. She also says that women should have the right not to be treated like Helen was. They should stand up for themselves and not put up with anyone's nonsense. Women have all the rights of men, as far as respect is concerned.