In life, people come and go. It is simply the natural process of human existence. Different people can teach different things on the journey of self-discovery. I was ten years old when I took my first step onto the school bus, thus beginning my first big transition from elementary school to middle school. A million thoughts ran through my head, such as how many teachers I had, what time I would have lunch, what my first class would be, and of course, who I would sit next to on the bus. I looked for the first available seat and sat down not knowing all the memories, tears, love and pain I would share with this stranger sitting next to me. What started out as an awkward bus ride quickly turned into a lasting friendship. My best friend, Tiana Smith, has had an impact on my life and personal growth. He taught me that it's okay to have and show my emotions, stay strong in my faith in God, and just be myself. Tiana taught me that it's okay to be myself no matter what the circumstances. For as long as I can remember, I have been told that I should behave a certain way because of where I come from. I have to listen to categorical types of music, wear my hair a particular way, and dress in a certain type of clothing. When I was younger everyone told me I acted “white” or that I “wasn't black enough” because I listened to pop music instead of rap and wore my hair straight instead of “natural.” I would go home and try to transform myself into someone I wasn't, but Tiana encouraged me to be the person I truly am despite everything. No one can hide their personality, you are who you are. I constantly remind myself of the Bible verse Psalm 139:14 “I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful.” If God has made me and every one of us on this earth extraordinary, then why try to hide your truth