Have two parents who are not terribly ill even if one is ill still has the other parent who can pick up the slack, know that both parents are terribly ill you are in the same situation both for a single parent who was the only income coming in. This is what happened to my mother: she got really sick and none of the doctors knew what was happening to her. We moved a lot and every place we moved was better than the last place my mother got the job, a wonderful job at Goodyear where she worked for three years in tire engineering, it was one of the best jobs to have in Lawton, Oklahoma, he worked twelve hour shifts, so he was gone most of the time. Good thing we all know how to cook my older brother out of school and my sister was in high school and I was in middle school in eighth grade in 2008 was the year. When he had the stroke we had to move out of the four bedroom house and into a three bedroom flat as the stroke aggravated his muscle problems, he was unable to hold a baby, his leave due to illness he had expired and could not meet the physical demands of the job. We eventually moved to Augusta Georgia to be with her older sister in Augusta and my and I missed 3 months of school when we first moved to Augusta, awer the mother had to prove we are her children, we had full custody and some other paper work that was there