Topic > Why do married spouses cheat and can they fix the infidelity? Why married spouses cheat in reality cannot be explained, you can only give opinions on the situation. What cannot be explained can certainly be expressed. There are many different aspects of why married spouses cheat. If you discover that your spouse has been unfaithful, you will undoubtedly feel a whole range of emotions: shock, anger, grief, devastation, and intense sadness. You may have trouble sleeping or eating, or feel completely obsessed with the relationship. If you are an emotional person, you may cry a lot. You may want to be alone or, conversely, feel at your worst when you are. All of these reactions are perfectly normal. Men who cheat have not fallen out of love; they have become dissatisfied with its current state. Betrayal usually occurs in the phase of love between partners, when couples begin to settle down and have children. Even if they are satisfied in some areas, such as being a provider, the romance may be lacking. To me men think of women complaining about the lack of romance, but men feel it. They often suffer in silence, believing they can't get what they want from their spouses. Most husbands love their wives, but don't know how to solve relationship problems, so they leave the marriage to fill any empty holes. Men are more likely to cheat than women. I'm not saying that women don't cheat, it's just that men are more likely to cheat on their wife, that's just my opinion. When a woman cheats it is more dangerous with her relationship. Women often embark on the path of infidelity when they feel like their hopes and dreams are shattered. Even if we believe we have nothing in common with women who lived hundreds of years ago, we can all agree... middle of paper... and cause many effects. People become unreliable when their significant other cheats on them. As I mentioned at the beginning of this article, men cheat for a variety of reasons, but these are some things to watch out for if you suspect your spouse is cheating on you: • Immaturity • Unrealistic expectations • Communication problems • Not argue fairly • Destructive means of solving problems If you suspect any of these things you should try to prove them before accusing him. Cheating statistics in the United States increase every year at an astonishing rate. Long-lasting marriages or relationships seem to be more difficult to achieve and even rare. In my opinion, this is because more people are likely to cheat because they have been cheated on multiple times. This can also have a serious effect on your marriage if you are aware of your significant other's infidelity..