They got married about 2 months after me, but didn't live together for the first year. They had some problems due to the ups and downs they had had in their marriage. within a few months he joined the army behind his back and that was a big deal for us. After that she finally moved in with him and a month later he left for basic training while she was gone. he made a big mess. She was an emotional mess and she slept with this guy, obviously it made things worse somehow, but it really helped me wake up. And she realized that she had a good man and was trying to make a better life for our family. She found out she was pregnant too, so it really changed my life and tried to live for God and my family. His ex and his relationship really grew and when he came back we were doing great and had the baby. But within a few months we started going through this huge spiritual battle that led me to confess that she had cheated on me while he was away. Which literally tore him apart, understandably. she was so frustrated because he knew she had changed so much that everyone knew... they could see it in my eyes. Well, he turned away from God and started a relationship with who I thought was my “best friend,” it was so crazy. So we've been through a lot. We were working on our wedding and he moved 4 hours away for school and like the next day