Even when I was a child (play age), if I made a mistake my parents would not shame me for my mistakes, but would do the right thing showing me how to do it right, which promotes autonomy, which would also help me make the right decision. When I started going to school (school age), I was raised to be a hard worker, to work with industry, which means success doesn't work with hard work, and this is a method I use until until now. And this is where it gets harder for me, the teenage years. In these years people discover who they are in life, to be honest I'm 19 years old and I still don't know where I'm going in my life, I don't really know what the cause of all this is, I don't like to blame people. I hope the college journey helps me find my place. I may be curious, confident in my choices, and a hard worker, but I'm still on the journey of finding myself, and that's how I relate to Erik's identity formation. Explaining how self-realization can be difficult, and for me to say I have achieved self-realization is a lie, I'm still insecure about some parts of my life, actually when I started